Relationship between people is one strange thing.
You never know why and you never know how.
Sometimes all it takes is just one look, one conversation, one simple connection.
Most of the time is because we often have something in common,
and sometimes, you just clicked. Just like that~
Sometimes, relationship is built through time, through hardship, through tears and laughters,
through memories built together.
Through time, you understand each other so well that you don't need words to know what the other person is thinking, you know each other so well that you can forgive those silly things that they do, bear the unbearable cause you know, this is who and what they are.
You're comfortable doing things together in silence, sitting together in silence, walking together in silence.
You know you can count on them whenever you need them. They'll always say the right things, sometimes even a little white lies just to make you feel better. You build memories together, happy ones, sad ones, horrible ones...etc.
Maintaining a relationship is all hard work and is a two way thing, both side have to work equally hard to get the wheels rolling. Long distance ones are especially hard...don't you agree??
Sometimes friendship is just like any love relationship,
you start with fire or passion, you do everything together, you spend a incredible amount of time together then slowly arguments come up, you starting to piss each other off and then you start to wonder whether its worth it...and as time goes by, you wonder off further and further away from each other and then one day, when people ask why you drift apart, you'll probably shrugged it away, just like that. There this chinese saying, the more simple or on the surface your relationship is, the longer you get to keep them. Agree?
Consider youself blessed and trully lucky if you found one or two close friends,
do keep them close at all cost. Put in a little effort, build a lifelong relationship. It is possible even if you are a world apart. The question is, are you willing to do so?
Have you been a good friend? or have you been taking things for granted??
To all of you that I care so much,
I'll do whatever it takes to make our friendship works,
cause I have too much to lose...You.
3 comments:
hi joeyin, nice reading your blog
'walking together in silence' describes some moments of mine
hey...how can i subscribe to your blog so i dont have to search for it thru joyce's blog lol?
btw...what a tear-tugging entry!
er...i don't really know?
I'm pretty amazed myself when I read this entry today.
hahahahaa..Im wondering how on earth I could spilled out something like this,
anyway...am glad u like it.
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